The Law of Attraction, the Law of Mirroring, Will Always Bring to Us The Wanted and Unwanted
We draw to us what we want and don’t want in life. Everyone will always experience contrast in their lives. We invite people, places, and things from the vibration or frequency that is an energetic vibration match to us. People must understand that we manifest our external environment that matches our internal frequency vibration in our fractal-based universe.
Why Isn’t The Law of Attraction Working For Me?
Many people think all you have to do is say your positive affirmations and have positive thoughts, and then you will always get what you want and never experience the unwanted. This belief is faulty regarding the Law of Attraction or the Law of Mirroring. We must have our thoughts, emotions, and energies aligned with what we want to manifest our desires in our lives. We must think, believe, and feel with our emotions that what we want has already happened. You already have it in now! Claim it; it is yours, it’s already here, and be grateful for that thing in your life.
The problem with this is most of us hold limiting beliefs, conscious or subconscious. Such as, we say yes, I want this more than anything in life, but consciously or subconsciously, we have core beliefs, “I don’t believe it is possible” With one doubt, what’s happening is we believe it is not possible.
When people don’t manifest what they want or manifest the things they don’t wish to, instead, they say the Law of Attraction or the Law of Mirroring is a lie; or it doesn’t work. However, some people say that the Law of Attraction ruined their life. Everything that comes to us wanted or unwanted, is an exact reflection of our inner world, whether it is conscious or unconscious. Whether we believe it or not, we must realize this and take responsibility for our choices in life.
Contrast is Part of This Universe
First, contrast is a part of this universe; we will always experience contrast in our lives, the unwanted. Many people in spiritual circles believe that the more conscious you are and the more control you have over your vibration; therefore, you will no longer experience unwanted things in life. This belief is also faulty regarding the Law of Attraction or the Law of Mirroring. What truly happens is that our relationship with the contrast that comes into our life changes.
The Law of Attraction Is A Lie: Is it?
People who believe that the Law of attraction is a lie do not understand what it truly means or how it works. The Law of Attraction or the Law of mirroring is always on, always working whether we believe it or not.
The Law of attraction is NOT a Lie; it is people’s misunderstanding of how it truly works. Even enlightened beings on this planet endure contrast, the unwanted. No one is ever exempt from contrast or the unwanted; it is part of our universe.
What Does Contrast Mean In The Law of Attraction?
Contrast is a part of this time-space reality. We have chosen to come to a time-space reality where the contrast will always be. Contrast is the stepping stone for our expansion. Our expansion comes from the contrast we face in life, the unwanted, and, therefore, we know what we do want. As a result, we can make choices to achieve what is wanted. As our personal growth expands, so does the universe. The contrast is positive and negative. When we sort through our contrast, we know what we want and don’t want.
What we want is born out of the contrast we experience in our life. Working through our contrast, the unwanted things, we need to understand the unwanted contrast is just what we need to get to where we want to be or achieve. The more important something we want is to us; this is where we may face the most resistance or contrast to get through to reach our desires.
Is The Law of Attraction Real?
I can genuinely assure you that the Law of Attraction is Real!
I can assure you that the contrast is just as Real as we attract the Unwanted into our lives.
A Story of My Contrast, “The Unwanted” That I Attracted To My Life
My Fear of Failure, Literally Almost Killed Me!
When I started this website and my YouTube channel, it was with a profound desire to help others with the knowledge of holistic, natural ways of healing. Including meditation, parts work, shadow work, and the power of Yoga and Qigong to heal our energy body, physical, mental, and emotional pain, and trauma.
I Healed Chronic Pain and MS Through These Methods
Healing myself through these methods from MS, chronic pain, and childhood trauma, I was encouraged by one of my doctors and my daughter to share what I know through experience to help others do the same. I suffered from MS and chronic pain for 23 years, and I learned how to heal myself and start living life again. (To understand my life struggles and healing, read my about page for my story after you finish this post)
I started this website and my YouTube channel a couple of years ago, in 2020, though my WordPress Site says 2022 because I updated the theme to 2022. At the time, I was so happy and healthy and was beaming with expansion toward helping others. But then, the overwhelming contrast started to pile up; therefore, health issues, one on top of the other, began to hit me in February 2021.
Fear of Failure
The contrast that I was dealing with was fear! Though I did not recognize it at that time. I did not know what was happening to me. The fear of failure, the fear of putting myself out there in a big way, was not something I ever did before. So I built a giant wall of resistance to that fear and kept trying to bulldoze through it. As I stated earlier, the most important and heartfelt things we want in life come with the most substantial contrast and any opposition we have toward our expansion.
My Limiting Beliefs and Subconscious Blocks
My limiting beliefs started to creep up subtly. It all started with the negative thoughts that began to come up, and they began to become stronger. Negative self-talk and feelings of dread with each one. Such as, “you are not worthy.” “Who do you think you are? “You don’t know what you’re doing,”: “You can’t build a website,” “You have nothing to offer others to help,” “No one wants to hear or gives a fuck what you have to say,” “No one cares what you have to say enough even to read a post,” “No one will believe you” “You can’t help anyone.” And the list of negative thoughts kept coming.
The Subconscious Wants to Keep Us Safe
My fear blocks in my subconscious mind wanted me to give up and throw in the towel, for the subconscious was trying to keep me safe, for this is what the subconscious mind does. Most would call this self-sabotage, but the subconscious mind is trying to protect us against more pain. My resistance to the contrast came flooding in as great fear rose inside me. It was the most potent fear I have ever felt, and I experienced some horrific things. Finally, I just wanted to give up, quit, fuck it; it’s too hard, but I slowly continued to plow through.
Pushing through resistance should never be done. We should always deal with the resistance first before going any further. Do not suppress, deny, and ignore any resistance you may be experiencing as I did; it will cause you great pain.
Fighting The Contrast, Putting Up Resistance to My Fear
The more resistance I put up against my fear of continuing with what I have no doubt now with my whole being, is that this is truly my purpose at this stage in my life. I want with all my heart to help others. But at the time, the fear made me feel like a car crusher was crushing me at a scrap yard. I started waking up each day with panic and anxiety because I did not understand where it was coming from. Why was I feeling like this? What the fuck is this feeling of dread, fear, and panic so strong as soon as I opened my eyes each morning.
The more resistance I put up against the fear, the stronger it became throughout the day. As a result, I felt like I could not breathe, my anxiety started to shoot through the roof again, and I hadn’t experienced anxiety to this extent in years. What the hell was wrong with me? I could not sit down at my computer to work on my site; when I did, it was like a torcher. Trying to do a YT video was turning from joy to dread.
My Health Began To Go In a Downward Spiral
In February 2021, I woke up at five am with vertigo so bad that I wanted to throw up. I could not sit up or get out of bed myself. My partner had to help me stand, supporting me, while I was holding onto furniture to get out to the living room.
I was taken to the hospital ER and told I had a stroke. They sent me to a hospital in Syracuse via ambulance. I spent a week there, then sent to a physical therapy center for three weeks. Then home in a wheelchair for the vertigo was still coming and going, and I could not walk around, sit or lie down without the world spinning. After about a month, it started to become less and less. So during this time, I was not working on my website or my YT channel. However, I did begin slowly back to writing posts for my site and did a couple of YT videos.
The Next Physical Issue Came In July 2021
One week before this physical setback, I was ziplining off the highest mountain in North America with my niece, daughter, granddaughter, and some friends. I had always had a great fear of heights. However, I wanted to go desperately, and I did. We took a stretch limo there, and I had one of the best days of my life. It took us four hours to zipline down the mountain. It was so breathtakingly beautiful, and I had never felt so alive. I overcame my fear of heights that day. Then one week later…my life started to change drastically with my health.
I was walking across my backyard, and suddenly, I experienced an incarcerated groin hernia. If you don’t know what that is, it’s where a part of your intestines becomes caught between a torn muscle and stuck there and cuts off the circulation. I went to my knees and onto my back, screaming in pain. My daughter took me to the ER at the hospital, and I had to have surgery. I was in the prep room, where they take you just before they bring you to surgery.
At the last minute, my surgeon had an emergency patient that needed surgery immediately. As my surgeon told me about the emergency he had, I was quickly approached by another doctor who came over and said, “I will take her,” and scooped me up and took me into surgery. This doctor was not my surgeon, but I was drugged up and just thought to myself, I guess I am going to surgery now.
After Surgery, There Was Something Very Wrong
After my surgery, I was in the hospital for three days. I told the nurses each day that I had had four C-sections and a total hysterectomy and had never felt this much pain. Something was not right. They would look at me like I was crazy, a crybaby, or a drug seeker; that is how they made me feel. I never saw the doctor that did my surgery, not once during my hospital stay. No one addressed that there could be an issue; on the third day, they sent me home in this pain; one of her assistants discharged me.
As time passed, my groin area, where the surgery was, became tighter and hard as a rock. I could not even sit in a sitting position, for this hard thing would cut into my groin and cut off the circulation to my left leg, turning it purple, and the pain was overwhelming.
In my first appointment with this doctor, she looked at the scar and said it was healing nicely. I explained to her how much pain I was in, and it was getting worse as it healed. Again, she would give me a look as if I was a big baby or perhaps a drug seeker.
My Downward Health Spiral Became Worse
After six weeks of back and forth with the surgeon, I was not receiving any help from the doctor. As a result, at the end of August, I ended up in the ER again, screaming in pain. I was calling, “please stop,” “please stop,” the pain was the worse I have ever endured. Because my pain level and blood pressure were so high, the ER doctor did an EKG and an Eco cardiogram. He returned to the room and told me I had a heart attack. I was transported to another city hospital via ambulance to a cardiac ward, where I spent over a week for my heart and pain control.
The heart doctor had a surgeon come in to examine my surgical area. He told me he could do nothing for me, would not touch me, and that I needed to return to the original surgeon. The day I was released, I went back to the ER of the hospital of the surgeon, hoping she would come in and examine me and finally help me in some way. Figure out what was wrong. She never came in to see me; she just talked to nurses on the phone, again blown off completely.
Complete Incompetence
A few days later, I was back in her office, lying on the table in extreme pain, and she still never examined me physically. Finally, she stated she was sending me to another surgeon and sent me home. One week later, I still had no word from this doctor’s office, and I called them to find out what the status was for this new surgeon. The nurse explained that this doctor had no notes on me, and I mean, NO notes in my records after eight weeks under her care. There was nothing about being sent to a new surgeon or anything else. The nurse told me the doctor was two months behind on her notes. I have never experienced this horrible treatment from a doctor in my life.
Finally Referred To A New Surgeon
My family doctor referred me to another surgeon. Once, I saw a new surgeon, and my first appointment went through about 20 injections in my groin area, hoping to ease the pain, but it did not work. Then at three am, I woke up in horrible pain. He said I might need two surgeries to fix the other surgeon’s botched surgery. I was mortified and in pain; I felt so much anger toward the surgeon who did the surgery and left me out to dry with no help.
My new surgeon, Dr. Hall, in Rome, had to wait eight months to do the corrective surgery because I had a heart attack. So for eight more months, I suffered; I could not sit in a sitting position, I could hardly walk, and the more I walked, the more pain I endured. I had nerve pain from my groin down to my foot. Sitting was out of the question. I had to stand or lie down.
Corrective Surgery Finally Done
As of March 2022, Dr. Hall had done my corrective surgery. He even had to remove part of my abdominal wall and lymph nodes. He put in an organic mesh. After this surgery, I had a sarcoma, where my abdominal area and whole left leg were swollen, holding 7 pounds of fluid. I had to have my groin area drained four times. My groin, belly, and left leg were swollen with excessive fluid for two months, but I was under excellent care from Dr. Hall and his staff.
As to the current date of this post, I can sit in a sitting position with nothing cutting into me. As a result, my circulation is not cut off in my leg when I sit down. Dr. Hall had removed the mess the other surgeon had made. I am so thankful to Dr. Hall, for I do not know where I would be today if it weren’t for him.
With Desire Comes Contrast, There are Positive and Negative in Every Decision We Make
In my conscious mind, I desire more than anything to help others find holistic, healthy ways to heal, for I know it is possible because I did it for myself.—Healing MS and chronic pain after 23 years of suffering.
The reason for the contrast I endured was hidden in my subconscious mind. The fear of failure was my contrast, and my resistance to that fear caused me to line up vibrationally with more illness. My subconscious mind was holding all the limiting beliefs that came back up for further healing. I needed to face them before moving forward and creating my desired life.
My resistance to fear was so strong that it started to paralyze me. I no longer enjoyed my work, quickly becoming more fearful, stressed, anxious, and in pain, but I still didn’t realize where this fear was coming from. So I suppressed it, denied it, did not want to own up to it, and continued trying to push through it; it was a big mistake on my part.
Opposition to fear made me sick, causing physical issues. I also held a positive indent for these physical issues in my subconscious. Manifesting an injury, I could not do my work, I could take a break, not having to face other contrast that came with it. As a result, it lined me up with an incarcerated hernia. I also lined up with a surgeon that botched the surgery. Why is that? How did I do that?
Consciously, I believed I could get back to work once my surgery was over and I healed. The fear I held in my subconscious did not want that, for it wanted to keep me safe in a comfort zone. Doing my work to help others heal is where I am supposed to be. Therefore, this is my life purpose, and I know it with all my heart, or my resistance to the contrast would not have been so strong.
I Needed To Address My Resistance to Fear
Therefore, I needed to sit down and go within and discover what was happening within me; I was terrified. My resistance to fear almost literally killed me. I pushed it down, denied it, and disowned it. I did nothing or anything I could to distract myself from facing it. Why did this contrast of fear come flooding up in me like this?
The contrast I Was Facing Within My Work Was Growing
As I became more involved in my work, I loved it more. With that said, I am not a technical person, and building this website alone has been a challenge. I have never done it before, and being an affiliate for a wonderful company that has helped thousands of people to change their lives through meditation was also important to me, for reflection was also part of my healing process. I know it can change people’s lives for the better in so many ways. Reaching and connecting people with the company’s information and products depends on my site traffic.
More Contrast: A Dishonest Software Plug-in Company for Websites Set Me Back
I don’t have the extra income to hire someone to build my site for me or to do paid ads. So I am learning how to develop my site as I write articles that reach organic search status on Google to the best of my ability. I also created, edited, and uploaded meditations, yoga, and qigong videos for YouTube to inspire others with MS, chronic pain, arthritis, and other mobility problems to get their bodies moving for their well-being. Perhaps to inspire others who want to lose weight and seniors who wish to become more balanced and flexible. Keeping our bodies moving is essential to improve our health and staying healthy.
Then I experienced a plugin that I was using for my website to redirect URLs when I changed titles or made changes to updates to posts. The purpose is to send my website traffic to the new and improved article. As I stated, I am not a techy person-months passed before I discovered they were sending my redirect URLs to their website, which they called Simple Site. I was devastated because I had worked so hard to build up my traffic that it was going in a downward spiral on Google, and I did not understand why. So I started investigating the issue, which is how I realized what was happening.
My Website Traffic Was Ripped Off
When I got ahold of this plugin owner and asked them why all my redirects were going to another site, called “Simple Site,” and not my redirected post, they tried to give me a bullshit story, which I knew enough that what they told me was a straight-up lie. When I click on a redirect rule, it should go to my new page, not a different website. So they were sending my traffic to another website that was their own.
Someone I highly respect in the affiliate marking world told me to get rid of it immediately; I was scammed, and my site traffic was redirected to another site. So this was another point of contrast that I encountered and was very hard to get through. Needing to uninstall the plugin and so many posts, for they were coming up as 404 pages not found when people clicked many of my articles. I felt like I was starting over, and I was. I was overwhelmed; this is when my self judgemental voices began popping up in my thought process. My negative judgemental, self-talk thoughts, the thoughts I stated earlier.
Understand That We Will Always Have Contrast Come Up In Our Lives
What Are Some Things That Can Make Us A Match to The Things In Our Life Wanted or Unwanted? Law of Attraction, Law of Mirroring
- Victimization is feeling like a victim in certain circumstances.
- Our beliefs, and many of them, are buried in the subconscious mind. Therefore, we don’t even know what they all are.
- What are we thinking on a conscious and subconscious level?
- Our desires can make you a match for something.
- Our emotions, feelings,
- Resistance and I can genuinely relate to this one. We can hold conscious and subconscious resistance to anything in our lives.
- Unresolved trauma;
- Positive memories;
- Ancestral patterns;
- Personal truths;
- Certain things you are avoiding to specific experiences, as with myself, avoiding the fear of failure because everything was turning to chaos.
- Prebirth intentions
- The choices we make can make us a match to specific experiences.
Life can become so complicated because there are so many of these things that can be a reflection at one single time or point in life.
Example 1:
Growing up with poor parents, you always heard you couldn’t have something you wanted because they didn’t have the money. You probably heard, “money doesn’t grow on trees” that was one of my parent’s favorite things to say. You were living in an environment with the vibration of lack, that there is not enough. Therefore, your thoughts, emotions, and internal vibrations will emanate a vibration of lack in your adult life. There’s not enough money; you will also attract people who are always in the same mindset, consciously or subconsciously vibrational situation.
As a result, if you don’t work with these limiting beliefs, conscious or subconscious, to change them. Instead, you will continue to draw a “lack” mentality within you and those in your environment.
Example 2:
You may have been abanded as a child. Therefore, you have issues in your relationships, conscious or subconscious. You do not allow yourself to be vulnerable in relationships. You keep people at a distance, so they don’t get too close. This vulnerable state is you may believe they will leave you too. You will also draw people with abandonment issues who can’t commit to a relationship.
Example 3:
You may have grown up in an abusive home, where dad was always drunk, and mom was in complete denial. Dad would physically abuse mom and the kids when the urge struck him. Therefore, you grow up and put yourself in the same type of relationships, for you believe this is the norm.
There is No State of Consciousness Where You Will Not Experience Unwanted Things
No one on this planet is exempt from contrast. It doesn’t matter how aware someone is or how pure a person’s vibration is. There will never be a time when you will reach a state of consciousness where no contrast will enter your life. We all face disparity, the unwanted. Contrast is where we meet our expansion. The decisions we make and the actions we take out of the experienced contrast lead us toward our growth.
Therefore, this is why we are here in this life, to experience, make choices from the contrast, learn, grow, and expand in our lives. As we live, we experience and expand, as does the universe at large.
Everything that exists has polarities; the wanted and unwanted, upside and downside, and positive and negative. There is a contrast in everything; no matter how conscious you become, you will still experience contrast. However, we need to learn how to deal with, face, and not fear the contrast.
Committing to Self Awareness In a Time Space Reality Based Off The Law of Mirroring
There is a Two-Step Intention.
There is a one, two step intention when someone comes into the physical plane in this time-space reality off the Law of mirroring. Therefore, when we state, I commit to self-awareness. These are the steps.
Step 1:
It is like stepping in front of the mirror and seeing the reflection of reality with pure perception, “our external life reality.”
Step 2:
Based on seeing our reality, we decided that we would give birth to what we desire instead. Therefore, I will change the reflection in the mirror, “my internal” environment” vs. “my external life environment,” therefore, by focusing on those things that are wanted. Then, we will know if we have changed things, for our external environment will also change.
Most of us are not doing this. We are working on becoming aware but are not doing step two. If we do not do step two, we are not making anything change. Therefore, we become stuck in pain and struggle and miss the potential to be happy.
Many People Are Doing Nothing To Become Aware
Many are not doing anything to become aware. People are entirely skipping step one. They are not looking at anything in their life to become aware of the reflection. They are in a state of denial and then say they will create what they want. Therefore, when we try to create what we want by avoiding self-awareness, this does not work to create our wanted desires. Many people genuinely believe that all they have to do is focus on what they want to be true. Therefore, they think they can sit back and watch the reflection in their environment change. Doing nothing to become aware is not a very good place to be. Doing so may bring you much more of what you do not want.
We must Accept that There is Contrast In Everything.
We must accept that there will be contrast in everything, even with our conscious or subconscious choices. Therefore, we will always line up with wanted and unwanted experiences. There are consequences to every choice we make. The only way you can guarantee you will not experience the unwanted contrast is to make a different choice.
Example: You have been repeating patterns with something in your life, believing there will be a different outcome each time. When we repeat patterns in life that cause us pain, we have not learned the lessons in contrast. We continue to be in a loop of a life pattern that causes us pain. Such as choosing over and over again the type of person in abusive personal relationships. As a result, we continue to draw these types of people into our life. We must become aware of this pattern and make a conscious choice that will guarantee we will not experience the same contrast by choosing a totally different type of person.
I hope this has helped you understand the Law of Attraction, the Law of Mirroring, more clearly.
We must understand that we will always endure contrast in life; it is the stepping stone to our expansion. What truly changes is our relationship with the contrast we face. Do we embrace it, accept it, own it, say yes, this is where I am right now? Therefore, looking forward to solutions. Or do we fight it, push it down, deny it, and disown it? The second option is a rough road to take; I can contest that.
Can You Step Back and Look at The Contrast With Awareness in Your Life?
When contrast comes up in your life, can you take a step back and look at it with awareness? Please do not resist it, for you may bring more negative contrast to yourself as I did. We can face harsh situations, but they also hold an essential wake-up call in life. At this point, I am so grateful for the contrast; without it, I would not be back on track. Working toward helping others with joy and purpose. Feelings of fear may pop up here and there, but I know now where it comes from “resistance.” I can sit down and do my work. As I begin my work, the fear disappears, and I am back in the zone again. I am working to help others with love and joy in my heart. Therefore, it is just the way it should be, for this is my purpose in life.
The Unconscious Mind Meaning, Its Power and How to Reach it. https://1111newme.com/2022/10/14/the-unconscious-mind-meaning-its-power-and-how-to-reach-it/